Relationship Building with Notables
November 21, 2025
How to raise relations with village/town notables for better recruits.
Relationship Building with Notables
Building trust with the common folk and local leaders is a path to power in Bannerlord. High relations with Notables mean better troops and more support.
Why Build Relations?
Recruitment: Access noble troops and more volume of recruits. See Recruiting Noble Troops.
Quests: Some quests are only offered if you have a baseline trust.
Supporters: In towns, high relation notables provide passive influence if you own the settlement.
Methods
1. Quests
The most direct way. See our Quests & Notables guide. Completing a task like "Family Feud" can give +5 to +10 relation instantly.
2. Clearing Bandit Hideouts
This is the most efficient method for area-wide relations.
Find a hideout.
Wait until night.
Attack and defeat the boss.
Result: You gain relation with all notables in the nearby villages and towns. See Clearing Hideouts.
3. Protecting Villagers
If you see "Villagers of [Village]" being attacked by looters, jump in to help. Winning the battle grants relation with the notable they belong to.
Perks
The Charm skill is your best friend here.
Virile: First perk, often gives +relation for having children, but look for perks that boost quest rewards.
Meaningful Favors: Increases relation gain from solved issues.
Check the Charm Skill Guide for a full build.